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can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please. Question 

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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

(13 Mar 2016 22:13)lustywife Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 15:44)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 13:43)lustywife Wrote:  I'm in the process of finding the answer. My husband's sex drive has decreased considerably over the past 2/3 years, while mine seems to have increased. It's tricky, especially as I love sex. I masturbate much more than I used to, but as we know, it's not the same. I've recently noticed guys noticing me which has created lots of soul searching and self analysis. I'd never thought about being intimate with anyone else before, but I do now.

I am sorry to hear that. Have you talked to him about this? Would he allow you to sleep with other men? Communication is important maybe he will allow you to sleep with other men?

If your needs are not being fulfilled you must love him but he must also understand you have needs to.

I am sure you will have plenty off men to sleep with you.

If you want to discuss this further feel free to private message me if you wish.

Mr dominant.
At this stage, I don't think he'd be happy knowing I was meeting other men.

Have you talked to him about the way you feeling? If your sexually frustrated then he should understand your feelings about this and your wants and needs and they need fulfilling.
13 Mar 2016 22:37
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Post: #32
RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

(13 Mar 2016 22:37)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:13)lustywife Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 15:44)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 13:43)lustywife Wrote:  I'm in the process of finding the answer. My husband's sex drive has decreased considerably over the past 2/3 years, while mine seems to have increased. It's tricky, especially as I love sex. I masturbate much more than I used to, but as we know, it's not the same. I've recently noticed guys noticing me which has created lots of soul searching and self analysis. I'd never thought about being intimate with anyone else before, but I do now.

I am sorry to hear that. Have you talked to him about this? Would he allow you to sleep with other men? Communication is important maybe he will allow you to sleep with other men?

If your needs are not being fulfilled you must love him but he must also understand you have needs to.

I am sure you will have plenty off men to sleep with you.

If you want to discuss this further feel free to private message me if you wish.

Mr dominant.
At this stage, I don't think he'd be happy knowing I was meeting other men.

Have you talked to him about the way you feeling? If your sexually frustrated then he should understand your feelings about this and your wants and needs and they need fulfilling.
Yes, I've talked to him. I seem to have tried everything. He doesn't seem interested at all.......and that is causing problems.
13 Mar 2016 22:42
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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

(13 Mar 2016 22:42)lustywife Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:37)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:13)lustywife Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 15:44)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 13:43)lustywife Wrote:  I'm in the process of finding the answer. My husband's sex drive has decreased considerably over the past 2/3 years, while mine seems to have increased. It's tricky, especially as I love sex. I masturbate much more than I used to, but as we know, it's not the same. I've recently noticed guys noticing me which has created lots of soul searching and self analysis. I'd never thought about being intimate with anyone else before, but I do now.

I am sorry to hear that. Have you talked to him about this? Would he allow you to sleep with other men? Communication is important maybe he will allow you to sleep with other men?

If your needs are not being fulfilled you must love him but he must also understand you have needs to.

I am sure you will have plenty off men to sleep with you.

If you want to discuss this further feel free to private message me if you wish.

Mr dominant.
At this stage, I don't think he'd be happy knowing I was meeting other men.

Have you talked to him about the way you feeling? If your sexually frustrated then he should understand your feelings about this and your wants and needs and they need fulfilling.
Yes, I've talked to him. I seem to have tried everything. He doesn't seem interested at all.......and that is causing problems.

Well I think you should tell him if he doesn't get his act together then there are plenty off other men that would satisfy your needs. Hopefully that should get his attention.

Like I said I am sure there are plenty off men out there who would love to help you with your sexual frustrations.
14 Mar 2016 08:11
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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

(14 Mar 2016 08:11)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:42)lustywife Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:37)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:13)lustywife Wrote:  
(12 Mar 2016 15:44)Mr dominant Wrote:  I am sorry to hear that. Have you talked to him about this? Would he allow you to sleep with other men? Communication is important maybe he will allow you to sleep with other men?

If your needs are not being fulfilled you must love him but he must also understand you have needs to.

I am sure you will have plenty off men to sleep with you.

If you want to discuss this further feel free to private message me if you wish.

Mr dominant.
At this stage, I don't think he'd be happy knowing I was meeting other men.

Have you talked to him about the way you feeling? If your sexually frustrated then he should understand your feelings about this and your wants and needs and they need fulfilling.
Yes, I've talked to him. I seem to have tried everything. He doesn't seem interested at all.......and that is causing problems.

Well I think you should tell him if he doesn't get his act together then there are plenty off other men that would satisfy your needs. Hopefully that should get his attention.

Like I said I am sure there are plenty off men out there who would love to help you with your sexual frustrations.
I'm starting to realise that!
14 Mar 2016 09:06
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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

(14 Mar 2016 09:06)lustywife Wrote:  
(14 Mar 2016 08:11)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:42)lustywife Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:37)Mr dominant Wrote:  
(13 Mar 2016 22:13)lustywife Wrote:  At this stage, I don't think he'd be happy knowing I was meeting other men.

Have you talked to him about the way you feeling? If your sexually frustrated then he should understand your feelings about this and your wants and needs and they need fulfilling.
Yes, I've talked to him. I seem to have tried everything. He doesn't seem interested at all.......and that is causing problems.

Well I think you should tell him if he doesn't get his act together then there are plenty off other men that would satisfy your needs. Hopefully that should get his attention.

Like I said I am sure there are plenty off men out there who would love to help you with your sexual frustrations.
I'm starting to realise that!

I know private message me and we can have a chat. I would like to get to know you a bit better.
14 Mar 2016 10:02
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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

Found this thread which sadly is relevant to my situation.

I found it quite fascinating reading , with some very sensible comments and points being raised.

Well worth a read folks !

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RE: can a relationship work with different sex drives..advice please.

I'm in the same position. But I never give up hope that I can find out the key to Mrs D's libido. She wants to find it too, which is also good

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
28 Apr 2019 08:03
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