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Edging or orgasm? Question 

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RE: Edging or orgasm?

I've been trying to get the hang off this edging business for ages and always seem to either stop too soon or too late. Been playing solo for a while but still enjoy a nice session of "me" time, often a few hours or more so would love to get the hang of it. Any pointers? 
26 May 2016 21:18
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RE: Edging or orgasm?

O, edging for sure. I can't remember the last time I wanked and went straight to cum. I've begun to edge and leave it over a couple of weeks, which really builds the anticipation (I'm in a sex-free relationship by the way). I love the way my balls and cock grow increasingly heavy-feeling, and the way the slightest provocation gets me aroused. And then the knowledge that on the next wank - I'm going to cum. Fabulously. With a big splashy ropey AAaaAAaaaAAArgghhhhhh!
Splendid! Almost makes up for not having sex anymore.

Almost.

(26 May 2016 21:18)MrRed Wrote:  I've been trying to get the hang off this edging business for ages and always seem to either stop too soon or too late. Been playing solo for a while but still enjoy a nice session of "me" time, often a few hours or more so would love to get the hang of it. Any pointers? 
I've edge in waves. Taking myself to that point where you get the beginning of intensity in the spot at the base of your cock, and then backing off, and maintaining a very slow movement, and (trying) to ignore the diktat from loins central to WANK YOU BASTARD!!! It's a case of mind over matter. Then build up again. I find it sometimes helps to go into wanking knowing i won't be cumming 'this time'. That removes the temptation.
Emergency brakes are a hard squeeze, or firm pressure on my perineum. That usually stops the momentum.

In dire emergencies, I have taught myself to picture George Osbourne in a nappy. That's never failed to stop proceedings.   

Best of luck, Mr REd.
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26 May 2016 21:47
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RE: Edging or orgasm?

(26 May 2016 21:47)Watershed Wrote:  O, edging for sure. I can't remember the last time I wanked and went straight to cum. I've begun to edge and leave it over a couple of weeks, which really builds the anticipation (I'm in a sex-free relationship by the way). I love the way my balls and cock grow increasingly heavy-feeling, and the way the slightest provocation gets me aroused. And then the knowledge that on the next wank - I'm going to cum. Fabulously. With a big splashy ropey AAaaAAaaaAAArgghhhhhh!
Splendid! Almost makes up for not having sex anymore.

Almost.

(26 May 2016 21:18)MrRed Wrote:  I've been trying to get the hang off this edging business for ages and always seem to either stop too soon or too late. Been playing solo for a while but still enjoy a nice session of "me" time, often a few hours or more so would love to get the hang of it. Any pointers? 
I've edge in waves. Taking myself to that point where you get the beginning of intensity in the spot at the base of your cock, and then backing off, and maintaining a very slow movement, and (trying) to ignore the diktat from loins central to WANK YOU BASTARD!!! It's a case of mind over matter. Then build up again. I find it sometimes helps to go into wanking knowing i won't be cumming 'this time'. That removes the temptation.
Emergency brakes are a hard squeeze, or firm pressure on my perineum. That usually stops the momentum.

In dire emergencies, I have taught myself to picture George Osbourne in a nappy. That's never failed to stop proceedings.   

Best of luck, Mr REd.

Much obliged Watershed. Some good advice but, I must say, Osborne in a nappy? You really have gone too far sir. Seriously tho, much appreciated. I'll certainly be taking your advice in hand, so to speak. 
27 May 2016 22:36
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RE: Edging or orgasm?

(27 May 2016 22:36)MrRed Wrote:  
(26 May 2016 21:47)Watershed Wrote:  O, edging for sure. I can't remember the last time I wanked and went straight to cum. I've begun to edge and leave it over a couple of weeks, which really builds the anticipation (I'm in a sex-free relationship by the way). I love the way my balls and cock grow increasingly heavy-feeling, and the way the slightest provocation gets me aroused. And then the knowledge that on the next wank - I'm going to cum. Fabulously. With a big splashy ropey AAaaAAaaaAAArgghhhhhh!
Splendid! Almost makes up for not having sex anymore.

Almost.

(26 May 2016 21:18)MrRed Wrote:  I've been trying to get the hang off this edging business for ages and always seem to either stop too soon or too late. Been playing solo for a while but still enjoy a nice session of "me" time, often a few hours or more so would love to get the hang of it. Any pointers? 
I've edge in waves. Taking myself to that point where you get the beginning of intensity in the spot at the base of your cock, and then backing off, and maintaining a very slow movement, and (trying) to ignore the diktat from loins central to WANK YOU BASTARD!!! It's a case of mind over matter. Then build up again. I find it sometimes helps to go into wanking knowing i won't be cumming 'this time'. That removes the temptation.
Emergency brakes are a hard squeeze, or firm pressure on my perineum. That usually stops the momentum.

In dire emergencies, I have taught myself to picture George Osbourne in a nappy. That's never failed to stop proceedings.   

Best of luck, Mr REd.

Much obliged Watershed. Some good advice but, I must say, Osborne in a nappy? You really have gone too far sir. Seriously tho, much appreciated. I'll certainly be taking your advice in hand, so to speak. 

And so last night, I edged with a lens of 'what is it I'm doing?'. And I think it's two things. Mind and body. Both of which are tricky to explain.
Mind - it's getting into a place of stasis, if you like. Where there is no goal. It's like a pool of sensation, as if you are floating without gravity. 
Body - you know how when you cum, those muscles between your cock and balls contract? Well, for me it's a case of relaxing them, and not allowing them that spasm or pulse. That was difficult initially. It feels as if it happens automatically - and there's probably an element of that, but I found with practice, I could completely keep them 'open'. I sometimes visualise the pool thing - warm, viscous, half-lit. Like I'm in a lava-lamp.
It can get a little woozy, to be honest.

And who doesn't like a bit of a wooze?

     
28 May 2016 08:39
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RE: Edging or orgasm?

(28 May 2016 08:39)Watershed Wrote:  
(27 May 2016 22:36)MrRed Wrote:  
(26 May 2016 21:47)Watershed Wrote:  O, edging for sure. I can't remember the last time I wanked and went straight to cum. I've begun to edge and leave it over a couple of weeks, which really builds the anticipation (I'm in a sex-free relationship by the way). I love the way my balls and cock grow increasingly heavy-feeling, and the way the slightest provocation gets me aroused. And then the knowledge that on the next wank - I'm going to cum. Fabulously. With a big splashy ropey AAaaAAaaaAAArgghhhhhh!
Splendid! Almost makes up for not having sex anymore.

Almost.

(26 May 2016 21:18)MrRed Wrote:  I've been trying to get the hang off this edging business for ages and always seem to either stop too soon or too late. Been playing solo for a while but still enjoy a nice session of "me" time, often a few hours or more so would love to get the hang of it. Any pointers? 
I've edge in waves. Taking myself to that point where you get the beginning of intensity in the spot at the base of your cock, and then backing off, and maintaining a very slow movement, and (trying) to ignore the diktat from loins central to WANK YOU BASTARD!!! It's a case of mind over matter. Then build up again. I find it sometimes helps to go into wanking knowing i won't be cumming 'this time'. That removes the temptation.
Emergency brakes are a hard squeeze, or firm pressure on my perineum. That usually stops the momentum.

In dire emergencies, I have taught myself to picture George Osbourne in a nappy. That's never failed to stop proceedings.   

Best of luck, Mr REd.

Much obliged Watershed. Some good advice but, I must say, Osborne in a nappy? You really have gone too far sir. Seriously tho, much appreciated. I'll certainly be taking your advice in hand, so to speak. 

And so last night, I edged with a lens of 'what is it I'm doing?'. And I think it's two things. Mind and body. Both of which are tricky to explain.
Mind - it's getting into a place of stasis, if you like. Where there is no goal. It's like a pool of sensation, as if you are floating without gravity. 
Body - you know how when you cum, those muscles between your cock and balls contract? Well, for me it's a case of relaxing them, and not allowing them that spasm or pulse. That was difficult initially. It feels as if it happens automatically - and there's probably an element of that, but I found with practice, I could completely keep them 'open'. I sometimes visualise the pool thing - warm, viscous, half-lit. Like I'm in a lava-lamp.
It can get a little woozy, to be honest.

And who doesn't like a bit of a wooze?

     
Well I must say Watershed, that was a bit of an eye opener. Almost an entirely different way of getting into it. 
To be brief... Single parent, only two nights a month for proper playtime, single for about a year, lots of experimenting and I have, of late, I think, been trying to cram too much in, as it were. Too much pressure to enjoy the moment ironically diminishes the anticipation and so when "me" time finally arrives, I often find myself in something of a "must enjoy, must play with all the toys, must watch loads of porn" mindset. Also, a few months ago, I managed to give myself a multiple prostate orgasm. A dragon I can't help but chase. I've known I need too relax for a while but your words really have brought it all to life. Incredibly grateful I am indeed. Brilliant. I now have six days to plan not planning anything. And I'm completely with you on the wooze. On the rare occasion I've had a second surprise orgasm after a wooze, it's felt amazing. 
28 May 2016 23:34
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RE: Edging or orgasm?

edging is the way that I prolong a wank.when I first started wanking, if I went straight through to orgasm, it would take less than 2 mins to orgasm. then  I found that reading a magazine that each girl could get plenty of strokes as long as I didn't come.when I got to the end of the mag, I would go back and ejaculate over the girl with the best tits,usually the biggest! I don't go on for hours, just enough to enjoy the fun!
29 May 2016 21:45
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I like to edge a few times by the 3rd or 4th time can't stop it got to let cum blast out
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Are there any real hot lady's out there up for some dirty chat and anyone near derby?????? We can try edging or anything else for that matter!!!
30 Jul 2016 19:28
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Blimey! I never though you could hold it off. I must try that!
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i thought that the longer a boy edges the more cum he shoots...
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