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How serious are you about your D/s role?

PinkLipstick92 Offline
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

Only you can answer that...

There is no reason why you couldn go back but instead of going straight into a slave dynamic start as "just" a sub and domme rather than slave and mistress.
(Personally I believe M/s relationships are far more intense than D/s ones because of the complete and total control. And D/s is intense enough for me currently lol)

Maybe you need to meet up and discuss it in depth, contracts etc.

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31 Jan 2014 21:44
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

Thanks PL92 Smile
Actually sorry, that kinda makes you sound like a document the Jobcentre might issue you with Undecided

Hmm, quite honestly I'm not fully aware of the differences between M/s (which I always used to think meant Marks & Spencer) and D/s (which I thought was a handheld games console).

As you can tell, I'm very clueless about the terminology!

She has an intoxicating personality and to be honest I would definitely like to be caught in her web. I think deep down I am secretly fantasising that she forces me to do it, because that would take away my indecision.

As someone who has drafted contracts in the past, that definitely appeals to me. And she is also very legally savvy and takes no prisoners when it comes to things like that (in a professional capacity, strictly nothing to do with domination, she has taken two people to court for breach of contracts before and won on both occasions, so I know in that sense I'd have met my match).

So tempted....
01 Feb 2014 14:24
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

Ms is Master and Slave. Usually from what I have seen there is practically nothing off limits and in some cases no safewords. If the slave is unhappy with something they dont se to have to right tp say stop to the situation.

Ds is Dominant and submissive. They are similar but there is still the limits in place and the chance to refuse.

Contracts - it is so painfully unromantic but it is liberating to know all the details are worked out.
I dont have a contract as such, I have rulea and I have it in writing He will not pursue another sub or involve a third party into our relationship. Under any circumstances.

I am going to ask for a rewrite of my rules after recent events though.

Good luck!!

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(This post was last modified: 01 Feb 2014 16:02 by PinkLipstick92.)
01 Feb 2014 16:00
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

Thanks for the clarification Smile

Well given what you said, she and I would definitely be an M/s situation.

I find the whole contract idea very arousing, personally. I think because it means that I've signed up to it, whatever happens is ultimately my own doing, and knowing her she will include a truly horrendous escape payment or something which would make it pretty unthinkable that I would back out.

I'm fairly well convinced, to be honest...in fact I think maybe it's time I text her and offered to buy her dinner...
01 Feb 2014 17:05
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

Go for it Big Grin

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01 Feb 2014 18:03
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Wow, what an evening!

Thanks for the encouragement, Pink...I took the plunge, texted her, took her for dinner...

Yeah. Gonna be quite a ride I think.
02 Feb 2014 01:35
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RE: How serious are you about your D/s role?

(02 Feb 2014 01:35)PredicaMr Wrote:  Wow, what an evening!

Thanks for the encouragement, Pink...I took the plunge, texted her, took her for dinner...

Yeah. Gonna be quite a ride I think.
Big Grin yay Smile 


Keep us updated Tongue 

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