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Friendships going wrong.

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RE: Friendships going wrong.

Shame, Hovis can't type

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04 May 2019 15:27
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RE: Friendships going wrong.

Thanks guys and girls,

I have written the letter by hand. I will also be re-reading it tomorrow to make sure it's right. I'm more confident now that things will be ok. We have an incredibly solid friendship and I'm sure that things will work out. 
I would normally talk to her about things like this and it is frustrating that I can't! 
04 May 2019 18:21
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RE: Friendships going wrong.

Sounds good

It is odd when you lose somebody who you share everything with. It leaves a big hole

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
04 May 2019 18:27
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You're telling me! We share everything. I have so many things that she has bought me in my house. Everything reminds me of her. She has many things of mine too. It's like loosing a limb!
04 May 2019 18:30
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I hope you manage to sort things out with her, Cueball. True friends are hard to come by.  Has there ever been any romantic feelings between you? 

Maybe she is going through some problems that she hasn't yet confided in you. You will tie yourself up in knots trying to work out the problem, so it's a waiting game, until she's ready to discuss it. 

From how you've described your relationship, I can't see her shutting you out for too long. Good luck.
04 May 2019 19:40
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Of course she will talk to you again.

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04 May 2019 19:59
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Thanks Voshigirl.
04 May 2019 20:30
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RE: Friendships going wrong.

At the risk of offering some rather obvious, maybe even corny advice, have you thought of surprising your lovely friends with a bunch of flowers, together with an apologetic card?
There are definitely worse courses of action cueball.

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05 May 2019 20:01
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Good point there RM, but that would mean more if done after the problem had been identified. An apology with or without flowers is a bit empty if there is nothing to apologise for, or the giver is unaware of what he is apologising for.
06 May 2019 05:51
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Indeed. Cueball hasn't indicated that the problem is anything he has (or hasn't) done. If it is then I'm sure it was unintentional and they will soon clear the air

And a bunch of flowers might send completely the wrong message. They are just friends and work colleagues (as far as we know)

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06 May 2019 06:41
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