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Open Marriage

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Wise words vosh

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14 Aug 2018 14:01
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(14 Aug 2018 14:01)dom_husband Wrote:  Wise words vosh
She usually is.

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14 Aug 2018 18:15
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Date was amazing. Have another this Thursday- feels very liberating

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27 Aug 2018 21:58
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(27 Aug 2018 21:58)dom_husband Wrote:  Date was amazing. Have another this Thursday- feels very liberating
Now come on DH; you can't whet our appetite like that and then leave us hanging on.
Tell us more about 'The Liberation of DH'.
(You know you want to!)

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28 Aug 2018 09:02
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Hi RM, I just meant that sex with another person after 14 years of sleeping with the same person was liberating. I have a great sex life at home but it's the excitement of the new

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28 Aug 2018 15:52
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Don't feel you need to tell us beyond what you already have DH. Much as I'm sure we'd all like to know the details, this is a new direction for you and you might not want to share

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
28 Aug 2018 16:13
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(28 Aug 2018 16:13)Diamond123 Wrote:  Don't feel you need to tell us beyond what you already have DH. Much as I'm sure we'd all like to know the details, this is a new direction for you and you might not want to share

If anything I would suggest metting others together and take things at a slow pace. Jealousy can still occur but if you are clear in your own minds about exactly what can happen and what is allowed this can be avoided . I talk through experience having met other crossdressers with my wife as a couple and both enjoying them . But the most important thing is your marriage. 

The online fun chat I think is harmless but in general women dont seem to think this, in my experience, I like to think of online chat and sharing fantasies a bit like interactive porn for want of a better description . Good luck in your hunt for pleasure. 
28 Aug 2018 17:34
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(28 Aug 2018 17:34)footsy888 Wrote:  
(28 Aug 2018 16:13)Diamond123 Wrote:  Don't feel you need to tell us beyond what you already have DH. Much as I'm sure we'd all like to know the details, this is a new direction for you and you might not want to share

If anything I would suggest metting others together and take things at a slow pace. Jealousy can still occur but if you are clear in your own minds about exactly what can happen and what is allowed this can be avoided . I talk through experience having met other crossdressers with my wife as a couple and both enjoying them . But the most important thing is your marriage. 

The online fun chat I think is harmless but in general women dont seem to think this, in my experience, I like to think of online chat and sharing fantasies a bit like interactive porn for want of a better description . Good luck in your hunt for pleasure. 
Great advice footsy from somebody who clearly knows what he is talking about.
I can see how easily jealousy can be an issue in such circumstances and footsy is well worth listening to in my opinion.

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it's all good advice but we've discussed it in depth and we feel we're ready. We've both been highly sexed through our whole relationship and I think we've both questioned whether sexual fidelity is as important as we all think: Love is different from sex and we want to live our lives without feeling we have to skulk around to get extra excitement.

I'm not shy about talking about what went on on my meet - I met the lady through a swingers site and I know she's not shy but this is a public forum and I'm not sure why anyone would want to know.

All I will say as it was a turn on for me was that she asked me to specify exactly what she should wear from head to foot so she could go out and buy it. It was a lot of fun

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30 Aug 2018 07:27
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It's sounding like you are both doing this the right way. Good luck and enjoy

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
30 Aug 2018 07:31
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