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First time swinging

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First time swinging

So. . . This saturday me and my partner are finally going to have a go at attending a swingers club. We have been speaking to a gorgeous experienced couple who have invited us along. My concern is im about 16st and compared to this couple am in a different league. I would say im a good looking lad but have indulged in too much alcohol over the past year to say the least. Weve exchanged clothed pictures and they have seen my partner naked but im concerned they wont be interested when we turn up. Any thoughts?
08 Aug 2018 14:51
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RE: First time swinging

You are in for a big culture shock, but I wouldn't worry about what you look like, everyone there will be well aware of their own perceived inadequacies.

Please tell us how it goes on Saturday?

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(This post was last modified: 08 Aug 2018 15:44 by Voshigirl.)
08 Aug 2018 15:41
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I certaintly will! I hope its a good experience. The couple we are going with are gorgeous and lovely people so hopefully all goes well. We are still unsure how far we are willing to go tho.
08 Aug 2018 18:48
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(08 Aug 2018 18:48)Lawrence69 Wrote:  I certaintly will! I hope its a good experience. The couple we are going with are gorgeous and lovely people so hopefully all goes well. We are still unsure how far we are willing to go tho.
Can't offer any advice based on personal experience I'm afraid Lawrence but Good Luck on your new adventure.
What a great thread to get us all thinking Sir!

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08 Aug 2018 19:07
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(08 Aug 2018 14:51)Lawrence69 Wrote:  So. . . This saturday me and my partner are finally going to have a go at attending a swingers club. We have been speaking to a gorgeous experienced couple who have invited us along. My concern is im about 16st and compared to this couple am in a different league. I would say im a good looking lad but have indulged in too much alcohol over the past year to say the least. Weve exchanged clothed pictures and they have seen my partner naked but im concerned they wont be interested when we turn up. Any thoughts?
Let this couple introduce you to the club and the lifestyle, do not worry about swinging with them unless they have said this is what they want to do. Swingers come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and you will soon make friends to swing with of similar size and wants. My (ex) wife and I swung for 5 years and met similar couples and a few skinnier ones. I was 16st and my wife was over 20st and dress size 22-26, this was never a problem as the right couples will seek you out and many will become long term friends. Also try certain swinging sites once you have dipped your toes in it.

Remember two things,
the ladies say what goes who with and when.
You can ALWAYS say NO! Never do anything you are not comfortable with.
99.9% of people are easy to get on with so do not settle for anyone who isn't.
Yes that is three isn't it?
08 Aug 2018 20:08
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(08 Aug 2018 20:08)sensualguy58 Wrote:  
(08 Aug 2018 14:51)Lawrence69 Wrote:  So. . . This saturday me and my partner are finally going to have a go at attending a swingers club. We have been speaking to a gorgeous experienced couple who have invited us along. My concern is im about 16st and compared to this couple am in a different league. I would say im a good looking lad but have indulged in too much alcohol over the past year to say the least. Weve exchanged clothed pictures and they have seen my partner naked but im concerned they wont be interested when we turn up. Any thoughts?
Let this couple introduce you to the club and the lifestyle, do not worry about swinging with them unless they have said this is what they want to do. Swingers come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and you will soon make friends to swing with of similar size and wants. My (ex) wife and I swung for 5 years and met similar couples and a few skinnier ones. I was 16st and my wife was over 20st and dress size 22-26, this was never a problem as the right couples will seek you out and many will become long term friends. Also try certain swinging sites once you have dipped your toes in it.

Remember two things,
the ladies say what goes who with and when.
You can ALWAYS say NO! Never do anything you are not comfortable with.
99.9% of people are easy to get on with so do not settle for anyone who isn't.
Yes that is three isn't it?
Well this sounds like good, sensible advice to me Lawrence from somebody who's been there, seen it and done it. 
I like the guidance that 'the right couples will seek you out' SG; possibly the most reassuring comment in your post.
And surely Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence can't be unlucky enough to bump into some of the 0.1% of people who aren't easy to get on with; not on their first visit! 

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08 Aug 2018 22:28
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