(24 Nov 2017 14:12)kingDom Wrote: One of the fun elements for me is pushing the boundaries and seeing how much I can get her to take. She’s doing very well and can definitely do more now, although I do need to careful not to push too hard. When she asks to stop there can be a (to me, perhaps naively) fine line between playfully protesting and wanting more, and actually protesting because it’s too much.
Also the aftercare is another area I need to be mindful of. Not every spanking will result in a drop, but I need to pick up when it does and do the things she likes... stroke her head, cuddle, brush her hair, go for a nap, etc.
and breakfast in bed
(24 Nov 2017 14:23)F6C Wrote: I think it's great you guys are pushing the boundaries in your sex life and both enjoying the journey. Long may it continue!
Hell yeah!
(24 Nov 2017 16:44)Voshigirl Wrote: That is a wonderful explanation of your emotions. Not to dissimilar to my own.
thank you Voshi, i knew if anyone would get it it would be you :-*
(24 Nov 2017 16:52)BrokenEye Wrote: (24 Nov 2017 14:12)kingDom Wrote: One of the fun elements for me is pushing the boundaries and seeing how much I can get her to take. She’s doing very well and can definitely do more now, although I do need to careful not to push too hard. When she asks to stop there can be a (to me, perhaps naively) fine line between playfully protesting and wanting more, and actually protesting because it’s too much.
Also the aftercare is another area I need to be mindful of. Not every spanking will result in a drop, but I need to pick up when it does and do the things she likes... stroke her head, cuddle, brush her hair, go for a nap, etc.
safe words are used quite a lot, words that don't come up in conversations too often, seems like you have most angles covered there 
Yes we have our safe word (unicorn) also a traffic lights system (red, amber, green) to give an idea of how I'm feeling/coping. If I am unable to speak (gagged for example) then a double tap anywhere on him is treated as a safe word.
(24 Nov 2017 17:14)yurigagarin Wrote: Hi kds,
Hope you kd don't mind me commenting.
First of all a beautiful story, wonderfully told and eloquently written.
As a person who knows nothing of the art of spanking, I have learned so
much from reading your personal journey of discovery and enlightenment.
And also, speaking as one who unfortunately does not enjoy a sexual relationship
with his OH, it truly gladdens my heart to read the story of a couple so obviously
totally, and completely in love with each other
Thank you for sharing.
of course I don't mind at all
I am glad you enjoyed a wee peek into what we get up to
and that I managed to convey how we feel about each other too
