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Spank you very much - a little bit of why we spank!

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RE: Spank you very much - a little bit of why we spank!

Hi kds,
Hope you kd don't mind me commenting.
First of all a beautiful story, wonderfully told and eloquently written.
As a person who knows nothing of the art of spanking, I have learned so
much from reading your personal journey of discovery and enlightenment.
And also, speaking as one who unfortunately does not enjoy a sexual relationship
with his OH, it truly gladdens my heart to read the story of a couple so obviously
totally, and completely in love with each other
Thank you for sharing.

Life is for living !! - Yuri would love to chat with you !!
24 Nov 2017 17:14
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RE: Spank you very much - a little bit of why we spank!

(24 Nov 2017 14:12)kingDom Wrote:  One of the fun elements for me is pushing the boundaries and seeing how much I can get her to take. She’s doing very well and can definitely do more now, although I do need to careful not to push too hard.  When she asks to stop there can be a (to me, perhaps naively) fine line between playfully protesting and wanting more, and actually protesting because it’s too much.

Also the aftercare is another area I need to be mindful of.  Not every spanking will result in a drop, but I need to pick up when it does and do the things she likes... stroke her head, cuddle, brush her hair, go for a nap, etc.
and breakfast in bed Wink

(24 Nov 2017 14:23)F6C Wrote:  I think it's great you guys are pushing the boundaries in your sex life and both enjoying the journey.  Long may it continue!

Hell yeah!

(24 Nov 2017 16:44)Voshigirl Wrote:  That is a wonderful explanation of your emotions.  Not to dissimilar to my own.
thank you Voshi, i knew if anyone would get it it would be you :-*

(24 Nov 2017 16:52)BrokenEye Wrote:  
(24 Nov 2017 14:12)kingDom Wrote:  One of the fun elements for me is pushing the boundaries and seeing how much I can get her to take. She’s doing very well and can definitely do more now, although I do need to careful not to push too hard.  When she asks to stop there can be a (to me, perhaps naively) fine line between playfully protesting and wanting more, and actually protesting because it’s too much.

Also the aftercare is another area I need to be mindful of.  Not every spanking will result in a drop, but I need to pick up when it does and do the things she likes... stroke her head, cuddle, brush her hair, go for a nap, etc.
safe words are used quite a lot, words that don't come up in conversations too often, seems like you have most angles covered there Smile

Yes we have our safe word (unicorn) also a traffic lights system (red, amber, green) to give an idea of how I'm feeling/coping. If I am unable to speak (gagged for example) then a double tap anywhere on him is treated as a safe word. 

(24 Nov 2017 17:14)yurigagarin Wrote:  Hi kds,
Hope you kd don't mind me commenting.
First of all a beautiful story, wonderfully told and eloquently written.
As a person who knows nothing of the art of spanking, I have learned so
much from reading your personal journey of discovery and enlightenment.
And also, speaking as one who unfortunately does not enjoy a sexual relationship
with his OH, it truly gladdens my heart to read the story of a couple so obviously
totally, and completely in love with each other
Thank you for sharing.

of course I don't mind at all Tongue
I am glad you enjoyed a wee peek into what we get up to Smile and that I managed to convey how we feel about each other  too Heart

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(This post was last modified: 25 Nov 2017 12:28 by kingDoms_sub.)
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(24 Nov 2017 10:39)kingDoms_sub Wrote:  Sounds like you are a wee bit into pain, Wolfie Wink

A wee bit, but only if asked by the right lady lol
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I like Mrs D to spank me and she's not adverse to doing it. The problem is trying to find a time when we can make noise

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
26 Nov 2017 08:37
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