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Have you ever paid for sex? Question 

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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

I've not paid for sex with another human (or animal for that matter!!!) however I have paid others online to ship me their certificates/diplomas to satisfy my fetishes. I have also given gay blow-jobs to men over double my age (I am a straight male) to pay for certificates.

Personally I feel like if it's a consensual act from both sides (and 18+), it should be legal regardless of any other arrangements.

Sure it's a hot topic, but I feel like if a girl (or guy!) can profit from giving themselves up for sex acts if they are 100% willing, they should be able to do so. As I've said, even I have partaken in sex acts I'd normally not have done for a reward (thought not monetary...), and I believe it should be legal to do so.

I think prostitution should be legal, if everyone involved is 18+ and consenting fully, why not legalise it?
(This post was last modified: 12 Oct 2017 06:01 by Sixth Raid.)
12 Oct 2017 06:01
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

I once had a woman staying with me for a few weeks who never offered any rent money but she did offer her full attention in the bedroom, if you know what I mean.
Does that count as me paying for sex? If it does, then it was certainly at the higher end of the rental market!
If that counts, then yes, I have paid for sex.
If it doesn't, then no, I'm Mr. Squeaky Clean.

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12 Oct 2017 22:32
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

(12 Oct 2017 22:32) Running Man Wrote:  I once had a woman staying with me for a few weeks who never offered any rent money but she did offer her full attention in the bedroom, if you know what I mean.
Does that count as me paying for sex? If it does, then it was certainly at the higher end of the rental market!
If that counts, then yes, I have paid for sex.
If it doesn't, then no, I'm Mr. Squeaky Clean.
Hmm...that is a tricky one. 

I would say it doesn't count though. It's not as if you gave her a place to stay so you could have sex with her...(or did you? lol), as she is "paying" you for a roof over her head. You are not obliged to pay her anything apart from a safe and decent environment which would be done standardly anyway. Does anyone think this could be correct?

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(13 Oct 2017 08:41)Red_Velvet Wrote:  
(12 Oct 2017 22:32) Running Man Wrote:  I once had a woman staying with me for a few weeks who never offered any rent money but she did offer her full attention in the bedroom, if you know what I mean.
Does that count as me paying for sex? If it does, then it was certainly at the higher end of the rental market!
If that counts, then yes, I have paid for sex.
If it doesn't, then no, I'm Mr. Squeaky Clean.
Hmm...that is a tricky one. 

I would say it doesn't count though. It's not as if you gave her a place to stay so you could have sex with her...(or did you? lol), as she is "paying" you for a roof over her head. You are not obliged to pay her anything apart from a safe and decent environment which would be done standardly anyway. Does anyone think this could be correct?
Thank you Miss Velvet.
My primary concern was to provide a safe and decent environment for my guest.
I'd just bought a new bed and bedding set and so my bed was the safest and most decent place for her to stay.
Am I a good landlord or what????

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13 Oct 2017 08:58
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(12 Oct 2017 06:01)Sixth Raid Wrote:  I've not paid for sex with another human (or animal for that matter!!!) however I have paid others online to ship me their certificates/diplomas to satisfy my fetishes. I have also given gay blow-jobs to men over double my age (I am a straight male) to pay for certificates.

Personally I feel like if it's a consensual act from both sides (and 18+), it should be legal regardless of any other arrangements.

Sure it's a hot topic, but I feel like if a girl (or guy!) can profit from giving themselves up for sex acts if they are 100% willing, they should be able to do so. As I've said, even I have partaken in sex acts I'd normally not have done for a reward (thought not monetary...), and I believe it should be legal to do so.

I think prostitution should be legal, if everyone involved is 18+ and consenting fully, why not legalise it?
Legalised? Probably...with mandatory health checks certainly, get the drug/alcohol abuse out of the equation.
Incidentally, I had a colleague a few years ago who confided in me that she occasionally worked as an escort while going through university when her bursary ran out. She was a delightful, bright and very "normal " young lady who was very good at her job. Which proves that you should never judge a person on only half the information.

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13 Oct 2017 09:00
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

(12 Oct 2017 06:01)Sixth Raid Wrote:  I've not paid for sex with another human (or animal for that matter!!!) however I have paid others online to ship me their certificates/diplomas to satisfy my fetishes. I have also given gay blow-jobs to men over double my age (I am a straight male) to pay for certificates.

Personally I feel like if it's a consensual act from both sides (and 18+), it should be legal regardless of any other arrangements.

Sure it's a hot topic, but I feel like if a girl (or guy!) can profit from giving themselves up for sex acts if they are 100% willing, they should be able to do so. As I've said, even I have partaken in sex acts I'd normally not have done for a reward (thought not monetary...), and I believe it should be legal to do so.

I think prostitution should be legal, if everyone involved is 18+ and consenting fully, why not legalise it?
how do we know it's really consensual, just because it looks like it.

"Modern Slavery" is real and in large part is related to the sex trade.

I agree that if we could guarantee that it was consensual then why not, but the risk is that you become complicit in the slavery of another person by creating the market that the abuser/trafficker profits from and directly leads to this type of abuse.

Not everyone is trafficked of course - some people are just desperate and feel they have no alternative - then punters are just exploiting someone's desperation. Technically consensual but not OK.

Some, I'm sure, choose it but how do you know who is who? 

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13 Oct 2017 09:09
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(13 Oct 2017 09:09)dom_husband Wrote:  
(12 Oct 2017 06:01)Sixth Raid Wrote:  I've not paid for sex with another human (or animal for that matter!!!) however I have paid others online to ship me their certificates/diplomas to satisfy my fetishes. I have also given gay blow-jobs to men over double my age (I am a straight male) to pay for certificates.

Personally I feel like if it's a consensual act from both sides (and 18+), it should be legal regardless of any other arrangements.

Sure it's a hot topic, but I feel like if a girl (or guy!) can profit from giving themselves up for sex acts if they are 100% willing, they should be able to do so. As I've said, even I have partaken in sex acts I'd normally not have done for a reward (thought not monetary...), and I believe it should be legal to do so.

I think prostitution should be legal, if everyone involved is 18+ and consenting fully, why not legalise it?
how do we know it's really consensual, just because it looks like it.

"Modern Slavery" is real and in large part is related to the sex trade.

I agree that if we could guarantee that it was consensual then why not, but the risk is that you become complicit in the slavery of another person by creating the market that the abuser/trafficker profits from and directly leads to this type of abuse.

Not everyone is trafficked of course - some people are just desperate and feel they have no alternative - then punters are just exploiting someone's desperation. Technically consensual but not OK.

Some, I'm sure, choose it but how do you know who is who? 

Absolutely right which is why I am a bit ambivalent about legalising it, in an ideal world there would be no need for someone to resort to visiting a prostitute, just as there wouldn't be any need for someone to have to turn to prostitution to make ends meet. But this not an ideal world.

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13 Oct 2017 10:02
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

To reply to the previous comments, I agree that it should be legal, and I do also think it should be regulated, with people who choose to prostitute themselves out able to do so through a regulated platform. Measures would 100% have to be taken to prevent substance abuse, diseases spreading, slavery, or having people being forced into selling themselves. I think legalising it with the right checks and restrictions could help cut that down.

Perhaps a solution would be to pass a law saying it's legal to sell sex, but not legal to buy it? That way prostitutes can come forward with information about anything that's been done to them and not fear prosecution. Or make it legal for a person to sell sex as a private party, but not sell sex with another person or arrange prostitution to curb abusive pimping.

It's a tricky one, certainly, I'm far from an expert on the matter, and we are sadly far from a perfect world.

I have a fetish involving any award, merit, or school certificates and always short of supply. If you have any sitting in an old folder somewhere, or any you don't mind parting with, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you! Heart
13 Oct 2017 22:55
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

I think prostitution should be legal. I think it's possible, with some effort on the part of either government or some regulatory body, to make it safe and to keep out drugs etc. Are the brothels in Nevada still working? They seemed like the a good example of how prostitution could work legally.

I would go to prostitutes if it were fully legal and regulated. I'm still attracted to women in their 20s and have always been attracted to ethnic women. I could spend a lot of time and money using websites and visiting pubs and clubs to fulfil these fantasies. I'd much rather just pay someone when the urge takes me. I'm fine with having sex with someone who's only doing it for the money. It would be about me just enjoying a woman's body.
14 Oct 2017 16:22
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RE: Have you ever paid for sex?

I didn't pay for sex. But would I do it? Probably not. When I have sex I like to have that connection and passion not a emotionless woman beneath me just waiting till I finish to take my money ;P

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15 Oct 2017 18:35
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