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The urge to cheat...

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(21 Aug 2017 18:29)Christian Wrote:  
(21 Aug 2017 12:11)Red_Velvet Wrote:  Christian - In that case I guess I have a sex drive like a man lol. I have always wondered what being a man would be like. I don't think I'd ever b in a proper relationship.

dom_husband - That's exactly why I feel the urge for novelty and excitement purposes. I didn't know how to put it in simple words lol, thank you.
Velvet in that case try to achieve open relationship. If its not possible with your current partner and your needs are greater, then its better to leave him then cheat. Why hurt someone? Be open and try to discuss this with him. If that wont work you will know you are not for each other. Be true with yourself or it will eat u up from inside.
I could never actually cheat I don't think. My will power is quite strong if I have something to lose. I wouldn't just leave him and break up our family so I could sleep with other people. He would have to do something worth me ending the relationship over, then I'd re-start my sex-venture.
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RE: The urge to cheat...

(21 Aug 2017 19:18)Red_Velvet Wrote:  
(21 Aug 2017 18:29)Christian Wrote:  
(21 Aug 2017 12:11)Red_Velvet Wrote:  Christian - In that case I guess I have a sex drive like a man lol. I have always wondered what being a man would be like. I don't think I'd ever b in a proper relationship.

dom_husband - That's exactly why I feel the urge for novelty and excitement purposes. I didn't know how to put it in simple words lol, thank you.
Velvet in that case try to achieve open relationship. If its not possible with your current partner and your needs are greater, then its better to leave him then cheat. Why hurt someone? Be open and try to discuss this with him. If that wont work you will know you are not for each other. Be true with yourself or it will eat u up from inside.
I could never actually cheat I don't think. My will power is quite strong if I have something to lose. I wouldn't just leave him and break up our family so I could sleep with other people. He would have to do something worth me ending the relationship over, then I'd re-start my sex-venture.
You know yourself what your priorities are. I know how u feel coz I love my wife very strongly and I couldn't cheat on her, but sexual urges are there. Its strange how emotions drift apart with sexual urges sometimes isn't? At some point we are thinking emotional human being and at some point pure animals.

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Another very interesting thread I stumbled across this morning !

I found the various posts made fascinating reading, and to be honest I found some quite relevant.

And some members posts were quite intriguing too !

24 Apr 2019 11:04
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A good find Yuri and a range of views

Cheating does go on, and by both sexes, but you have to be aware you might be throwing away everything you have

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
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(21 Aug 2017 18:57)dirtrydan38 Wrote:  I have been with my wife for nearly 20 years and i am getting the urge to cheat more and more.
Aw that's such a shame Dan.
I've been with my wife for over 21 years and I still want to fuck her at every given opportunity.
And being on here can often inspire some very interesting ideas for those naughty occasions.

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(24 Apr 2019 12:39)Diamond123 Wrote:  A good find Yuri and a range of views

Cheating does go on, and by both sexes, but you have to be aware you might be throwing away everything you have
I havnt bin on this site for a day n I jus seen this thred bout cheating.
I'm guilty of tht-jus a few weeks ago.
Is the second time I done it n I'm not proud of myself for doin it.evrythng at home was fine before -plenty of sex wth my hubby n extra sex wth 2 luvly people we found.
Met a guy at physio - we chatted n swappd numbers n sextd each other n then thngs  got hot n he came round n we ended up fuckin.
This all went on behind my hubbys back.
then hubby came home erly n found us -all hell let loose hubby was injurd.
I ended up losing my lovin husbnd, my home,my family n evrythng importnt to me.no car n no money.
It has ruined evrythng -but hav to say that I'm hopin we can put thngs rite in time but I nerly lost my hubby for good.hubby has bin hurt n needs ops to put it rite as well as being hurt mentally n financialy 
I bitterly regret doin wht I did n would never ever do it again. 
For fuck sake don't cheat lik I did cos thers so much to lose n beleve me thngs arnt alwys greener on the other side.

C.xx
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25 Apr 2019 02:26
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Good post there, C. Thanks for sharing, a fair warning.

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I think Carole is in a very good position to put cheating into perspective

If you don't try it how do you know you don't like it?
25 Apr 2019 07:52
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Carole, thank you for your post, it was a brave thing for you to do, and it clearly highlights
the pitfalls of cheating on your OH

I know things are moving slowly forward with you and Mike, and I wish you both well for
the future.

Yuri   

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(04 Aug 2017 22:49)Iamsomoney Wrote:  I have had the urge to, especially with a girl I used to work with, but have never done it and hope that I never will.

Problem is that you don't know what will happen in the future.
Great post Iam.
There must be many happily married people who've felt the urge to cheat over the years but feeling it, and acting upon it are two very different things.
Some things are best left to fantasy methinks. 
There's no harm in fantasising about having sex with somebody you've only just met, especially if you can share that fantasy with your partner.

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