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The urge to cheat...

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RE: The urge to cheat...

(25 Jul 2017 16:41)chidds01234 Wrote:  
(25 Jul 2017 13:33)Red_Velvet Wrote:  
(25 Jul 2017 05:24)Blue Wrote:  Yes, cheated,
No, she has no idea.
Is it a good idea, no not really, grass is not always greener.
Have I fulfill my desires, yes, some.
would I do it again, almost certainly but only because I have no will power and I am weak.
Apologies in advance if i'm wrong but, to be honest I don't think it is weakness. It may be a case of you wanting it that bad and you just think fuck it, literally lol. We all have choice to walk away or not do something but the want takes over the need. I have cheated in the past at almost every opportunity (not on my current partner though) because I could and I wanted to and I knew it would happen again, and again, and again. I believe the only reason I haven't cheated on my current partner is because there will be serious consequences. 

(25 Jul 2017 06:07)chidds01234 Wrote:  I am not weak and am in full control of my desires and destiny.  I have been married for 50 years this year and have not had sex with the wife for 29 years this year.  She is very religious and something I did was not what she expected of me, and she is punishing me.  However, being a man, and having a mans' needs, I started cheating on her about 25 years ago.  I have never regretted it, and I do not feel guilty over it.  I have had some excellent meetings, and some very good experiences with some lovely women. Some married, and some not.
My views differ from some of our members, and my outlook is different, but I have enjoyed my cheating immensely. We are still in a caring, if not a full loving, relationship.  And we expect to die in each others com
It's not just men that have needs mate, believe me. Does she know you cheat?
I don't know, but some of her comments suggest she guesses that I am cheating, but she has never reproached me on the subject.  I have often discussed my need with her and she still refuses to have sex with me.  But I am not fazed as I have five women that are happy to have me pay them attention, and they all look after my needs.

Maybe deep down she does know but doesn't want to actually hear it and she understands you have needs
26 Jul 2017 00:23
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RE: The urge to cheat...

Cheated, nope.
Sometimes wish i had/could, definitely.
Had the chance to, very very definitely!!

Lots of time away with work and in hotels, could have made it happen a number of times. A few offers among the road too, even though i wouldn't say i was all that either. One in particular, a 19 year old from one of the offices developed a bit of a thing for me while there for the weekend. Very fit, very sexy, very dirty telling me i could do whatever i wanted with her, huge big tits, etc etc. Damn that one took some willpower haha.

Unfortunately i don't think i ever could, kissed another woman once n the guilt killed me. So don't think i could ever go through with it.

I'd say the best option is to explain your desires, but i should really practice what i preach before giving advice!
27 Jul 2017 08:26
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RE: The urge to cheat...

(27 Jul 2017 08:26)Jb6969 Wrote:  Cheated, nope.
Sometimes wish i had/could, definitely.
Had the chance to, very very definitely!!

Lots of time away with work and in hotels, could have made it happen a number of times. A few offers among the road too, even though i wouldn't say i was all that either. One in particular, a 19 year old from one of the offices developed a bit of a thing for me while there for the weekend. Very fit, very sexy, very dirty telling me i could do whatever i wanted with her, huge big tits, etc etc. Damn that one took some willpower haha.

Unfortunately i don't think i ever could, kissed another woman once n the guilt killed me. So don't think i could ever go through with it.

I'd say the best option is to explain your desires, but i should really practice what i preach before giving advice!
That is very good willpower. I respect that.

I have decided to slowly just start implementing my fantasies without speaking to him to see how he responds. The bit I'm not too sure about is how to get him to accept a three/moresome. Not that he has turned it down though, but it's not something we've ever discussed seriously
28 Jul 2017 09:03
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RE: The urge to cheat...

There was once a time years ago and I turned down the opportunity..

I was in the fag end of a relationship and at my working leaving do, had a kiss and cuddle with a lady I kinda fell for and she said she felt the same..

She did ask me back to her's, I said I'd like to, but couldn't as it wasn't right.

I did split up with my gf afterwards and last saw my old work colleague about 7 years ago, she still looked great and the feelings were still there, but nothing happened.

I know I did the right thing, but sometimes, I do think, what if Smile
28 Jul 2017 09:11
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(28 Jul 2017 09:11)Wolfman Wrote:  There was once a time years ago and I turned down the opportunity..

I was in the fag end of a relationship and at my working leaving do, had a kiss and cuddle with a lady I kinda fell for and she said she felt the same..

She did ask me back to her's, I said I'd like to, but couldn't as it wasn't right.

I did split up with my gf afterwards and last saw my old work colleague about 7 years ago, she still looked great and the feelings were still there, but nothing happened.

I know I did the right thing, but sometimes, I do think, what if Smile
I often get that feeling of what if. The sexual tension can be so epic
28 Jul 2017 09:27
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I did kinda fall for her too lol

it was a long time ago, and I try as much as I can too shield myself from any hurt, but it was certainly the case of one who got away!
28 Jul 2017 13:48
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RE: The urge to cheat...

hi, I am new here,

Never cheated, I have a massive urge to do so just like you, I watch webcam milfs and to be honest it don't do it for me either, for me it would have to be with a mutual understanding partner to not cause a problem with my great home life, the urge is big and if in front of me my cock would be doing the thinking on this one. we only live once.
(This post was last modified: 04 Aug 2017 18:42 by ilovemilfs01.)
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Hello ILM01, enjoy it here.

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(04 Aug 2017 18:42)Voshigirl Wrote:  Hello ILM01,  enjoy it here.

hi, I hope so thankyou, maybe find some like minded females xxx
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That would depend on what your looking for. Lol

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04 Aug 2017 18:54
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