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Getting a friend to record you? Question 

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Getting a friend to record you?

Hey everyone. Me n the wife are thinking of filiming ourselfs having sex n maybe later on let a 3rd person record us. Question is if those who had a friend record them is how did you manage to get them to agree to it? :o
27 May 2017 10:29
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RE: Getting a friend to record you?

I like this question.

Welcome to the forum.

I can't offer you proven advice because I haven't been that lucky. Things I would consider though if I had a partner open to the idea is how to initiate an intimate conversation with my friends. It's one thing making a sexually suggestible comment but it's another thing to start a conversation that would engage a group of people to openly discuss sex. Damn human nature!

Could you get a friend to join you and your OH for dinner and engage in a frank conversation?

Would you have this conversation at your home or could you have it in hushed tones at a restaurant?

Would it be easier to have the conversation between just you and your future cameraman (or woman) down the pub and dress the chat up as a "wouldn't it be funny if" talk that you could back out off if it went pear shaped?

You could even say you're thinking of seeing a sex therapist and they've asked for a video to critique your technique. That does sound like the start of a porno though.

Just my thoughts.
27 May 2017 10:53
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RE: Getting a friend to record you?

I had the "what if" conversation with a friend that eventually led to sex and later threesome.

So this seems as good a plan as any. Enjoy, I hope it works out for you both.

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27 May 2017 16:45
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RE: Getting a friend to record you?

The only time a friend ended up taking photos was way back in the 1980s when the three of us had been sunbathing and were back at our place taking it in turn to use the shower. Hubby had taken a couple of photos of me and my friend topless on the beach and cheekily took one of my friend in the shower. She then waited for him to get in the shower and snapped him, I thought it would be amusing to tease him by flashing him, my friend quickly turned & took a photograph me, hubby then pulled me into the shower with him and groped my boobs which she also photographed! I retaliated by grabbing his willy (which very quickly became erect!), my friend carried on taking photos, he immediately put his hand between my legs and somehow his finger found my clitoris!! That had the effect of making me instantly aroused and wet, he delved a bit deeper and I just lost all sense of discretion! Next thing we knew, I was bent over with his willy in me and my friend was cheering us on while she continued to snap away!!!

There was never any prior discussion it, it was all spontaneous . The problem was that this happened back when digital cameras weren't invented!! You can't just walk into Boots and asks them to develop a film containing images like that!! We eventually found a company in Birmingham that advertised in an adult magazine, but I always had this fear that prints of our session would suddenly surface one day and cause much embarrassment.

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31 May 2017 10:20
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RE: Getting a friend to record you?

(31 May 2017 10:20)naturegirl1 Wrote:  The only time a friend ended up taking photos was way back in the 1980s when the three of us had been sunbathing and were back at our place taking it in turn to use the shower. Hubby had taken a couple of photos of me and my friend topless on the beach and cheekily took one of my friend in the shower. She then waited for him to get in the shower and snapped him, I thought it would be amusing to tease him by flashing him, my friend quickly turned & took a photograph me, hubby then pulled me into the shower with him and groped my boobs which she also photographed! I retaliated by grabbing his willy (which very quickly became erect!), my friend carried on taking photos, he immediately put his hand between my legs and somehow his finger found my clitoris!! That had the effect of making me instantly aroused and wet, he delved a bit deeper and I just lost all sense of discretion! Next thing we knew, I was bent over with his willy in me and my friend was cheering us on while she continued to snap away!!!

There was never any prior discussion it, it was all spontaneous . The problem was that this happened back when digital cameras weren't invented!! You can't just walk into Boots and asks them to develop a film containing images like that!! We eventually found a company in Birmingham that advertised in an adult magazine, but I always had this fear that prints of our session would suddenly surface one day and cause much embarrassment.

I think I'd have gone to the extreme measure of enrolling on a photography course at the local college to learn how to develop them myself!! 
31 May 2017 10:25
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(31 May 2017 10:25)Lady L Wrote:  
(31 May 2017 10:20)naturegirl1 Wrote:  The only time a friend ended up taking photos was way back in the 1980s when the three of us had been sunbathing and were back at our place taking it in turn to use the shower. Hubby had taken a couple of photos of me and my friend topless on the beach and cheekily took one of my friend in the shower. She then waited for him to get in the shower and snapped him, I thought it would be amusing to tease him by flashing him, my friend quickly turned & took a photograph me, hubby then pulled me into the shower with him and groped my boobs which she also photographed! I retaliated by grabbing his willy (which very quickly became erect!), my friend carried on taking photos, he immediately put his hand between my legs and somehow his finger found my clitoris!! That had the effect of making me instantly aroused and wet, he delved a bit deeper and I just lost all sense of discretion! Next thing we knew, I was bent over with his willy in me and my friend was cheering us on while she continued to snap away!!!

There was never any prior discussion it, it was all spontaneous . The problem was that this happened back when digital cameras weren't invented!! You can't just walk into Boots and asks them to develop a film containing images like that!! We eventually found a company in Birmingham that advertised in an adult magazine, but I always had this fear that prints of our session would suddenly surface one day and cause much embarrassment.

I think I'd have gone to the extreme measure of enrolling on a photography course at the local college to learn how to develop them myself!! 

The worst thing is she is still my oldest & best friend and 31 years on she still reminds us of that afternoon!! It wouldn't be so bad if I had something to hold over her..... but I haven't!

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31 May 2017 11:08
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RE: Getting a friend to record you?

My my, that's done the trick.

That's so erotic NG, just goes to show if your open and have a healthy attitude to sex anything can happen.

Thanks very much for sharing.
31 May 2017 18:50
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(31 May 2017 18:50)Lop1 Wrote:  My my, that's done the trick.

That's so erotic NG, just goes to show if your open and have a healthy attitude to sex anything can happen.

Thanks very much for sharing.
It's almost certainly when I realised that I was a bit of an exhibitionist! All sense of shame & shyness just evaporated!

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(01 Jun 2017 09:01)naturegirl1 Wrote:  
(31 May 2017 18:50)Lop1 Wrote:  My my, that's done the trick.

That's so erotic NG, just goes to show if your open and have a healthy attitude to sex anything can happen.

Thanks very much for sharing.
It's almost certainly when I realised that I was a bit of an exhibitionist! All sense of shame & shyness just evaporated!
can i borrow your friend? Smile
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(01 Jun 2017 09:01)naturegirl1 Wrote:  
(31 May 2017 18:50)Lop1 Wrote:  My my, that's done the trick.

That's so erotic NG, just goes to show if your open and have a healthy attitude to sex anything can happen.

Thanks very much for sharing.
It's almost certainly when I realised that I was a bit of an exhibitionist! All sense of shame & shyness just evaporated!

I can't speak for everybody else on here but I'm so glad that your shyness evaporated all those years ago NG.
That evaporation has led to many a pleasant thought I can tell you! 
Please continue to evaporate and don't even think about condensing!

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