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Orgasms and masturbation

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Orgasms and masturbation

 

I thought about starting a thread that slightly follows on from the 'What did you last wank to?'

If I am on my own and in the mood for porn, I will find videos that looks stimulating via the thumbnail.  And I will 'sort myself out' as it were.  When I masturbate I usually watch porn at the same time.  I cum within a few seconds when I cannot take watching as much porn as possible.  The last time I masturbated was about 2 months ago.  


However, when Mr. CS brings me to orgasm, it takes about five or so minutes, I either think about our sex session or previous porn clips I have seen in the past saved in the 'wank bank'  I never imagine it is me in the porn clips.  The orgasms he gives me are so intense, it is almost scary.  Like being on a roller coaster, there is a thrill but the anticipation of what is about to happen, the climax, like when the train climbs the steep, lingers and then drops... is almost to much to bear! I get a tingling feeling and then it feels like I am very warm and them someone throws freezing cold water all over me and then he makes me cum!!Cheer  


I don't know which ones are more intense, the ones he gives me via oral or by his fingers.  I prefer the orgasms when I am either fully sitting up or partially, it could be the gravity, again could be like the roller coaster analogy, G-Force.  


The orgasms I give myself there isn't that rollercoaster feeling, the hot and cold feeling, just the orgasm (from what I remember).  But I love the build-up he gives me I absolutely love.  It is like he has a hold over me now and I NEED him more than I NEED myself! QueeningFacial


For example today, we fucked and did some mutual masturbation, when I was playing with my clit, I was nearly there but when he came on me he took over from what I was doing and as soon as he touched me even that felt like he literally hit the spot.

I used to masturbate a lot when I was younger  and got the 'roller coaster' feeling.  Mr CS used to masturbate copious amounts of time when he was a teenager and single in his adult years but he also said that he has not feel the need to wank he says he doesn't feel the same, he prefers when I do it for him. 

Sex experts always say, that you should know what turns you on by masturbation but it seems we know one another  better than we know ourselves! 

Anyone else like this?

I think in a nutshell, I am saying we have so much sex we do not have the time to masturbate!  Maybe we could be so in tune with each other that we know what buttons to press on one another.


Thanks for reading.... Smile 

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11 Apr 2017 18:01
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RE: Orgasms and masturbation

That seems familiar. I'm my case I think it's mental. When I used to masturbate when I was single that was usually all I was getting so I think I may have subconsciously made an effort to make it good. I don't masturbate so much on my own now and when I do it it's usually because I'm very horny and solo masturbation is my only option. Because I'm only do it to release some pressure I may not put as much effort into making it good. That doesn't mean I don't have some good solo orgasms every so often though if I'm really horny.
11 Apr 2017 19:40
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(11 Apr 2017 19:40)curiositycat Wrote:  That seems familiar. I'm my case I think it's mental. When I used to masturbate when I was single that was usually all I was getting so I think I may have subconsciously made an effort to make it good. I don't masturbate so much on my own now and when I do it it's usually because I'm very horny and solo masturbation is my only option. Because I'm only do it to release some pressure I may not put as much effort into making it good. That doesn't mean I don't have some good solo orgasms every so often though if I'm really horny.

I find it unbearable when I am horny, especially when I am at work and I have to get through the day!

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11 Apr 2017 19:53
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(11 Apr 2017 19:53)Choclit_Spread Wrote:  
(11 Apr 2017 19:40)curiositycat Wrote:  That seems familiar. I'm my case I think it's mental. When I used to masturbate when I was single that was usually all I was getting so I think I may have subconsciously made an effort to make it good. I don't masturbate so much on my own now and when I do it it's usually because I'm very horny and solo masturbation is my only option. Because I'm only do it to release some pressure I may not put as much effort into making it good. That doesn't mean I don't have some good solo orgasms every so often though if I'm really horny.

I find it unbearable when I am horny, especially when I am at work and I have to get through the day!

I don't seem to get horny like that any more. It might be something to do with having a family, getting older and feeling more tired than I used to. I still get incredibly horny when I'm alone with my husband or a girlfriend though.
11 Apr 2017 20:00
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I masturbate a lot,either when my husband is knelt between my legs,when he is giving me oral I play with my clit.I also masturbate when he is with another woman & I am imaging what they are doing.Even though my husband knows exactly how & where to touch a woman and how much pressure to use,I do find masturbating to be very satisfying.
12 Apr 2017 12:49
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(12 Apr 2017 12:49)Dee1965 Wrote:  I masturbate a lot,either when my husband is knelt between my legs,when he is giving me oral I play with my clit.I also masturbate when he is with another woman & I am imaging what they are doing.Even though my husband knows exactly how & where to touch a woman and how much pressure to use,I do find masturbating to be very satisfying.

VERY satisfying Dee!

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12 Apr 2017 13:21
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(11 Apr 2017 20:00)curiositycat Wrote:  
(11 Apr 2017 19:53)Choclit_Spread Wrote:  I find it unbearable when I am horny, especially when I am at work and I have to get through the day!

I don't seem to get horny like that any more. It might be something to do with having a family, getting older and feeling more tired than I used to. I still get incredibly horny when I'm alone with my husband or a girlfriend though.


I can indentify totally with your post Cat! ( except the "girlfriend " part!! Lol)
12 Apr 2017 15:15
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It's weird, i used to masturbate as a young girl & feel guilty afterwards (thanks to a "victorian" family environment), but as i was a promiscuous teenager the need to pleasure myself was not that relevant as I had boys to do that for me! When i got a bit older i lost the inhibitions about masturbation & undoubtedly got to some form of climax (and ejaculation I should add), but it wasn't until I had a fling with another female at the age of 20 (ok, nearly 21) and had my first true earth moving orgasm that the floodgates opened! After that I seemed to be able to generate the most divine sensations.
Move on a few years & come to the time i met & settled down with the guy who is my husband of 31 years, a man who encouraged me to experiment & explore the outer reaches of my (and our) sexuality and masturbation is quite an important part of our lives. I can put my hand on my heart & claim to always have amazing orgasms (with him or solo). It has become an integral part of our lovemaking, a great way to turn ourselves on.

If it feels good...do it! Wink

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12 Apr 2017 15:30
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It depends upon how masterbation is defined, if I am doing most of the physical effort for her does it apply?

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12 Apr 2017 15:47
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(12 Apr 2017 15:47)Hovis Wrote:  It depends upon how masterbation is defined, if I am doing most of the physical effort for her does it apply?
probably not! By definition, masturbation is the act of self pleasuring. it can be in the company of your partner, but she needs to be the person doing most of the work!!

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