physical or psychological

Just a question for everyone:-

As an experienced dom of female submissives I have come to the conclusion that most of the ladies are more turned on by the psychological side of the encounters rather than the physical side. I know that some physicality is involved and usually a must but is that the part that excites or is it predominantly the fact of helplesness/humiliation?

What are other peoples experiences and attitude to it?

(14 Mar 2017 17:32)batleyman Wrote:  Just a question for everyone:-

As an experienced dom of female submissives I have come to the conclusion that most of the ladies are more turned on by the psychological side of the encounters rather than the physical side. I know that some physicality is involved and usually a must but is that the part that excites or is it predominantly the fact of helplesness/humiliation?

What are other peoples experiences and attitude to it?

As a experienced dominant the two are connected.

They say the brain is the biggest turn on apart from the physical attraction since the brain is connected to the erogenous zones off a women.

I think the two are connected together with the physocaigal and the physical intertwined together.

My brain needs to be turned on before anything else can follow. I derive huge pleasure from being mentally probed and stripped before being stripped and probed ohysically!!

Psychological is far more important to me - but physically will naturally follow suit.

BH x

For me it's mostly in my head. I have to be in the right frame of mind, if I'm not I can't cum no matter what!

I'm not into BDSM at all, but the same principal applies, I have to be mentally aroused before my physical arousal becomes evident.

I think it's very personal and dependant on the individuals thresholds. I would say that this level of submissiveness could be an excuse for something not quite right though.

As a guy I have to be metally "up for it" before I can rise to the occasion....