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New to the sub world

lovetoplease
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New to the sub world

Hi all

I'm naturally very submissive in bed so I'm looking to enter the world of bdsm more x
26 Aug 2016 16:57
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I am too! Cheer
26 Aug 2016 17:19
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(26 Aug 2016 16:57)lovetoplease Wrote:  Hi all

I'm naturally very submissive in bed so I'm looking to enter the world of bdsm more x

Are you male or female? I would like to help you on this journey if your female.
26 Aug 2016 18:11
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Hi Lovetoplease. I am in the same situation as you. Good luck with your journey to your submissive side
26 Aug 2016 22:10
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(26 Aug 2016 18:11) Mr dominant Wrote:  
(26 Aug 2016 16:57)lovetoplease Wrote:  Hi all

I'm naturally very submissive in bed so I'm looking to enter the world of bdsm more x

Are you male or female? I would like to help you on this journey if your female.

I'm female and very willing to accept your help
26 Aug 2016 22:44
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hi... im new to this too...seems there are alot of us
03 Feb 2017 07:19
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Hello, hereatlast.
03 Feb 2017 14:17
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Hi all, 
I'm very new to the world of bsdm. I met someone on a site and had an amazing time and after another meet with this guy was a master looking for a slave girl. I was intrigued and love the thought of a role where if I am good I get what I want. By being good, pleasing my master is something I really enjoy I am excited by the possibilities and experiences I will be opened up to. Its very intimate when we are together but what I am concerning myself with is the psychological attachment/ my feelings for him will go past just master/slave dynamic and he has assured me he isn't looking for a relationship of that kind, but does want an exclusive intimate relationship with me, but it is purely about sex. He has promised to not hurt me And look after me and he wouldn't do anything I was uncomfortable with and im very excited and haven't felt this good or sexy in a while. But Is it all just meaningless. Gimme some advice... 
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26 Oct 2017 10:41
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(26 Oct 2017 10:41)Hevsmev Wrote:  Hi all, 
I'm very new to the world of bsdm. I met someone on a site and had an amazing time and after another meet with this guy was a master looking for a slave girl. I was intrigued and love the thought of a role where if I am good I get what I want. By being good, pleasing my master is something I really enjoy I am excited by the possibilities and experiences I will be opened up to. Its very intimate when we are together but what I am concerning myself with is the psychological attachment/ my feelings for him will go past just master/slave dynamic and he has assured me he isn't looking for a relationship of that kind, but does want an exclusive intimate relationship with me, but it is purely about sex. He has promised to not hurt me And look after me and he wouldn't do anything I was uncomfortable with and im very excited and haven't felt this good or sexy in a while. But Is it all just meaningless. Gimme some advice... 

If he doesn’t take into account your feelings wants and needs as a submissive to him he is not a ture dominant and is only using you for sex.

If you have agreed that you both don’t want feelings involved and it’s just casual then that’s your choice but as in all relationships fellings grow and will do especially in the intense sexual encounters off BDSM.

I suggest you talk about your fellings with him and if he doesn’t respond well or respect your thoughts then I suggest you find another master who will treat you the right way and not just for sex.

I hope my advice helps a little and keep us updates on what’s going on. X
26 Oct 2017 10:52
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Hi and welcome to the forum Lovetoplease, from what I know ( which is not a lot) BDSM relationships are complex, and very rewarding IF you pick well, I know of a woman that has been living the lifestyle for nearly 50 years, and it works fine for her, I agree with Mr Dominant above, just don't get used, I mean in the real sense of the word. hope you find what you are looking for and have fun on here Smile
26 Oct 2017 13:22
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