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Gang bang and girlfriend help

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Gang bang and girlfriend help

Hi I'm new here I've been on fetlife before that's where I met my fiance. We love eachother implicitly and are very open.I need a fair bit of advice as I have no one else to talk to about it.My partner wants to be dominated by another guy or girl, and not me. I am not against this but ait does put things in your head. What if she gets used to this other, prefers them to me. Gets out off sex with me (which has started to dwindle the past few months). Am I a failure to her that I can't give her what she wants and needs therefore making me useless as a sexual partner?The other thing is she wants to be used and have a gang bang? With me involved but again I'm ok with the idea but I'm stuck as I'm shit in public plus ill hang up in the fact that she may get better sex from the other guys or only want to fuck with them there or in a gang bang. Sounds selfish I know sorry but these things crop up. I allready think she's way out of my league sexually and has a very high appetite for sex but past few montha not with me. Now she is no way to blame, we both are often knackere and don't ger much us time, I'm shit at telling the signs to fuck her and she doesn't ever choose to with me first.I'm just being stupid but please any advice be awesome Thanks guys n girls
06 Nov 2014 17:51
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Have you spoken to her about your worries?
It sounds to me like even though you love each other and are open you might not be quite ready for this step. You do need to be sure or it will ruin your relationship.

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06 Nov 2014 18:32
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I agree with pervy. If you don't feel comfortable with it don't do it. Sounds like it would put a lot of insecurities in your mind and once they're there it's difficult to get rid of them.
06 Nov 2014 18:34
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I agree with you both. We have talked about it and I've been fine when we've been to swinging clubs etc I'm just not that good a performer in public plus some of the guys are so creepy. But in my mind we are strong enough to try something and if it doesn't work then we can openly talk about it. I see it as if we stay enclosed then no ones ever gonna open up and enjoy them selves. I myself can't ejaculate at all for medical reasons so I haven't orgasmed or cum in 2 years the satisfction I get is making her cum and knowing I'm doing it. I suppose the worry is that the grass will be greener on the other side and she'll only wan to fuck in a gang bang. Leaving me no joy in it or being able to make her cum on my own.
06 Nov 2014 18:56
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