Welcome to UK Sex Forum, Guest! Log In or Sign Up For A FREE Account

 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5

D/s relationship on the rocks

PinkLipstick92 Offline
Oinkie the Awesome Mod
******

Bicurious
Female

Joined: Jul 2013
Posts: 2,791 / Rep: 190
Post: #11
RE: D/s relationship on the rocks

Smile I'm glad its working out, or at least starting to.

You'll get there Smile


Sometimes we need to lose something to make us realise how good it was Smile

Heart His Little Girl Heart
20 Feb 2014 17:03
Find Posts Reply
JettaUK Offline
Junior Member
**

Straight
Male

Joined: Feb 2014
Posts: 6 / Rep: 0
Post: #12
RE: D/s relationship on the rocks

Very true, since I've started really trying it's become apparent to me quite how much I miss it and find her attractive, we haven't slept together since about Christmas though, I really want her to want it as bad as I do but she won't unless I'm Daddy again, what sort of things does your Daddy do to turn you on (not during sex) but throughout the day to make sure your desperate for him by the evening? What will he say to you?
21 Feb 2014 00:17
Find Posts Reply
PinkLipstick92 Offline
Oinkie the Awesome Mod
******

Bicurious
Female

Joined: Jul 2013
Posts: 2,791 / Rep: 190
Post: #13
RE: D/s relationship on the rocks

(21 Feb 2014 00:17)JettaUK Wrote:  Very true, since I've started really trying it's become apparent to me quite how much I miss it and find her attractive, we haven't slept together since about Christmas though, I really want her to want it as bad as I do but she won't unless I'm Daddy again, what sort of things does your Daddy do to turn you on (not during sex) but throughout the day to make sure your desperate for him by the evening? What will he say to you?

Daddy and I aren't doing it as much as we want to at the moment for a variety of reasons, so even if I do get to the desperate stage I don't always get what I want. We had a quickie last week after I'd given Him a long BJ. But before that, I'm not entirely sure when the last time was. Just how it is atm, I'm sure things will be ok again soon. 


One of my rules is that I am not allowed to play with myself, or cum, unless I have asked Daddy for permission to do so. Sometimes He will deny me, so I can save it for when we are together, so that will either kill the passion or make me super horny lol. 
Sometimes this really gets me going, because He is in real control. However not being able to cum whenever I want has resulted in me only managing a handful of O's in the last 9months (alone or with Him) because of a mental block. 
But as long as its a once in a while thing it may work for you. Telling her if she wants to get herself off, she has to let you watch or some other condition you put on the situation. 

Another one of my rules is that I have to send a picture of my underwear every day to Daddy. Sometimes He picks for me, other times He will say its a little day or a big girl day, others its completely up to me. But knowing that I need to send the pic makes me think of Him alot, so again I can work myself up that way. But when I get His reactions it stays with me for hours. 


We also sext alot through out the day. As much as I enjoyed cyber sex and flirtations with other guys in my 'nilla relationship, it is 1000% better doing it with my Daddy.  Don't underestimate how hot sending flirty, suggestive and down right filthy texts and pics to your OH is. 


But I suppose the biggest turn on, is just knowing how much He wants me. I get my pleasure from His pleasure (and He says the same LOL) so we both get very turned on very quickly. He tells me alot that I'm beautiful, or that I'm sexy or whatever. But then He will follow it up with something about Him Owning me (and that sentence alone, said at the right time, in the right tone, can melt me and make me weak at the knees)


I'm sure I'll have more to add in the morning, but right now I am so late for bed it's unreal! Can hardly think straight :')

Heart His Little Girl Heart
21 Feb 2014 00:51
Find Posts Reply
JettaUK Offline
Junior Member
**

Straight
Male

Joined: Feb 2014
Posts: 6 / Rep: 0
Post: #14
RE: D/s relationship on the rocks

After thinking things were getting better in the last 24 hours, we spend a good 2 1/2 hours arguing about our relationship before bed tonight, not sure what came over me but I just grabbed her by the hair and told her she belonged to me (build up frustration I guess) and took her upstairs and fucked her for the first time since Christmas, and the first decent sex we've had in maybe years, I pinned down her face whilst fucking her and making sure she couldn't breathe, her pussy was wetter than I have ever felt before. This seemed to be just what she needed/ wanted and me as well, I feel so strong right now, I laid her down afterwards and stroked her back until she was asleep.

I just really wanted to say thank you, without you perhaps this couldn't of happened and in a week of being on here my problem seems almost completely fixed. I'm so appreciative that you've taken so much time to answer honestly and truthfully, really can't thank you enough, we've still got a way to go but I've never felt more optimistic.
I'll keep you posted on how things go.
Thank you again

Matt.
22 Feb 2014 00:48
Find Posts Reply




User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)