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frustrated wife - galwaycpl - 28 Nov 2013 10:01

hi all,

is it just me or do any other women have problems climaxing on their own?? when ever i play alone i never get off as hard as when my hubbys doing it, i use all my toys but when i cum using these the orgasm is never as big as when he uses them on me!!

any tips??


RE: frustrated wife - S_C42 - 28 Nov 2013 10:44

Have you tried a Hitachi magic wand (Other makes are available, try e-bay.)

If not add it to your Xmas list. Wink


RE: frustrated wife - galwaycpl - 29 Nov 2013 13:56

(28 Nov 2013 10:44)S_C42 Wrote:  Have you tried a Hitachi magic wand (Other makes are available, try e-bay.)

If not add it to your Xmas list. Wink

hubby brought one home a few weeks ago, tbh its kinda big, feels a bit strange to be holding a big "stick" against me, i gave a huge orgasm when he used it but not when i used it, but ill give it another go and see how i get on


RE: frustrated wife - littledick - 29 Nov 2013 14:34

Get rid of the sex toys, just use your fingers but arrange a mirror to watch yourself.


RE: frustrated wife - Catwoman - 29 Nov 2013 16:25

(28 Nov 2013 10:44)S_C42 Wrote:  Have you tried a Hitachi magic wand (Other makes are available, try e-bay.)

If not add it to your Xmas list. Wink
find my one to be great for massage (which tbh is why i bought it as it eases my sciatica) but when i tried it sexually it did nothing for me :-(


RE: frustrated wife - galwaycpl - 05 Dec 2013 13:04

(29 Nov 2013 18:40)grissea Wrote:  
(28 Nov 2013 10:01)galwaycpl Wrote:  hi all,

is it just me or do any other women have problems climaxing on their own?? when ever i play alone i never get off as hard as when my hubbys doing it, i use all my toys but when i cum using these the orgasm is never as big as when he uses them on me!!

any tips??


To be quite honest, Toys don't do it for me at all in a solo play session... Very much a nipple and clit stimulation girl. Some selfies are mind-blowing, others not so much... a bit hit and miss.

Are you able to come using only fingers? Maybe you're like me? Toys are not for everyone tbh, solo or otherwise.

yes grissea, i have some of the best orgasims when i do a bit of diy, was hoping that that when i used one of the many toys hubby bought i would come uncontrallably but maybe as you said i sould keep on using my fingerers!!


RE: frustrated wife - Running Man - 18 May 2019 09:14

Ooh now this is a deliciously sexy thread and definitely one for the ladies.
Quite a bit of good advice for us men too around looking after our partners.
I've read it through twice!


RE: frustrated wife - Dee1965 - 18 May 2019 11:34

I can never cum as hard when I do myself as I do when my husband does me. He seems to have a knack with his tongue,fingers & cock that makes me really cum,even squirt.

I am not sure how he does it,but when he uses his tongue on my clit & lips he just seems to find the right spots,then with his fingers playing with & teasing my clit & g-spot I always squirt.


RE: frustrated wife - Running Man - 18 May 2019 16:32

(29 Nov 2013 14:34)littledick Wrote:  Get rid of the sex toys, just use your fingers but arrange a mirror to watch yourself.
Now here's an idea that I really like.
I'm certainly going to suggest that to Little Wifey but I may even try it out myself!