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Do they know? - Diamond123 - 11 Sep 2018 18:33

If you are a voyeur, does it make a difference if the person/people being watched know they are bring watched? 

Conversely, if you are an exhibitionist do you hope someone is watching or do you have to know they are? 


RE: Do they know? - Iamsomoney - 11 Sep 2018 21:46

I would definitely prefer that the people know that I'm watching. Sadly it hadn't happened as yet.


RE: Do they know? - Maurice - 12 Sep 2018 08:01

As I am both a voyeur and an exhibitionist, I have something of a strange stance on this.
On the voyeurism side, I would want the subject to be aware that I might be watching, or to be certain that I sm. For him/her to be totally unaware seems a bit sordid to me.
As an exhibitionist, if I were to find out that someone had managed to watch unbeknown to me, I'd find that highly erotic.
I suppose all this depends on whether the person being secretly watched is an exhibitionist, and whether the voyeur is aware of this. If so, no problem, if not however, this behaviour would be totally unacceptable


RE: Do they know? - Diamond123 - 12 Sep 2018 09:04

Thanks Maurice that's very interesting

Clearly there is a moral question bring raised here but I meant the question to be largely hypothetical and certainly not to encourage spying et. It's the same with 'hidden.camera' porn which I find unvomfortable


RE: Do they know? - Mr and Mrs - 12 Sep 2018 14:27

While we were on holiday this year in Cyprus.
We had a room that was slightly over looked and I noticed a lad of about 18-20 glance into our room,so I gave him a cheeky smile & blew him a kiss.

A couple of days after I was getting changed in to my swimwear & noticed this lad again looking,I am sure that he didnt realise that I had noticed him,so I turned my back to him & "accidentally" dropped my bikini bottoms & with my legs apart,bent down to pick them up,then turned around so that I was facing him & drew my fingers over my nipples & breasts slipping down to my pussy,slipping a couple of fingers into me & finger fucking myself, I glanced up and he had slipped his hand into his shorts and was clearly wanking.

Then I got into my swimwear and went to the pool to join my husband and told him what had happened.

about half an hour later this lad walked past smiling at me,my husband told me to give the lad an early,or late birthday present & fuck him.


RE: Do they know? - Diamond123 - 12 Sep 2018 15:15

Great story neatly covering both sides of this thread. And a lucky lad


RE: Do they know? - yurigagarin - 12 Sep 2018 16:54

(12 Sep 2018 14:27)Mr and Mrs Wrote:  While we were on holiday this year in Cyprus.
We had a room that was slightly over looked and I noticed a lad of about 18-20 glance into our room,so I gave him a cheeky smile & blew him a kiss.

A couple of days after I was getting changed in to my swimwear & noticed this lad again looking,I am sure that he didnt realise that I had noticed him,so I turned my back to him & "accidentally" dropped my bikini bottoms & with my legs apart,bent down to pick them up,then turned around so that I was facing him & drew my fingers over my nipples & breasts slipping down to my pussy,slipping a couple of fingers into me & finger fucking myself, I glanced up and he had slipped his hand into his shorts and was clearly wanking.

Then I got into my swimwear and went to the pool to join my husband and told him what had happened.

about half an hour later this lad walked past smiling at me,my husband told me to give the lad an early,or late birthday present & fuck him.
What a beautiful story, that lad was so fortunate to be in the right place at just the right time !
Can you let us know which hotel you go to in Cyprus, so the next time you go we can organize a 
UKSF group holiday, and book some overlooking rooms!

And I have to ask, did the young lad get his birthday present ??


RE: Do they know? - Diamond123 - 12 Sep 2018 17:07

That's a good plan Yuri. When you book the room don't ask for a sea view like everyone else. You want a view of Mr and Mrs' room


RE: Do they know? - Berkscountryboy - 12 Sep 2018 19:15

I think it's nice to know if someone is watching you if you want to be watched


RE: Do they know? - Diamond123 - 12 Sep 2018 19:16

I agree BCB. Although sometimes I wish someone were watching, it's better when you know they are

For the same reason it's better to use a cam chat site that tells you who's watching rather than one that doesn't