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Help being more dom? - mlm1234 - 18 Jul 2017 09:41

Can anybody help me out there.
Me and my BF are fem we both love drag, cross-dressing.  Im more dom in real life and submissive in the bedroom and the reverse for him.  My BF came to the other day and said he would like to try being submissive in the bedroom for awhile.  I have tried this before but found i was total shit at it so we reversed back.  
Can anybody help, i dont what it to be shit for him.  
Any ideas what i can do?  
Being more dom in bedroom?
Toys or bondage i could use?
Anything i arrange?
Anything?


RE: Help being more dom? - Wolfman - 18 Jul 2017 21:40

I had a really hot sub/Dom play session a few months ago, nothing to hardcore, we used over the door restraints, duct tape and a riding crop!

I enjoyed switching and acting out both roles, being a showman..

The equipment was inexpensive and I was able to relax and throw myself into both role's with relish

My advice? Have a safeword, simple bondage, take your time, and above all, have fun!


RE: Help being more dom? - mlm1234 - 18 Jul 2017 21:48

(18 Jul 2017 21:40)Wolfman Wrote:  I had a really hot sub/Dom play session a few months ago, nothing to hardcore, we used over the door restraints, duct tape and a riding crop!

I enjoyed switching and acting out both roles, being a showman..

The equipment was inexpensive and I was able to relax and throw myself into both role's with relish

My advice? Have a safeword, simple bondage, take your time, and above all, have fun!
I do like spanking and toys when he uses it on me (he may like that), but im shit at dom in the bedroom i dont seem to be as a showman as u would say.  the only think i have said cant do until we do this is masturbate and he calling/text on how hard and desperate he feeling
how do you get into it, act apart?


RE: Help being more dom? - Wolfman - 18 Jul 2017 22:08

Its difficult to explain!

I guess behind closed doors and with a trusting play partner who I'm comfortable with, I can act the fool..

Must be a frustrated thespian in there I guess ☺


RE: Help being more dom? - mlm1234 - 19 Jul 2017 09:19

(18 Jul 2017 22:08)Wolfman Wrote:  Its difficult to explain!

I guess behind closed doors and with a trusting play partner who I'm comfortable with, I can act the fool..

Must be a frustrated thespian in there I guess ☺
know i can only think of you as having some kind of Shakespearean sex performer.
To sex or to not to sex that is the question


RE: Help being more dom? - Wolfman - 19 Jul 2017 12:07

No!

I'm a simple fellow from London, no airs and graces with me..

But there's nowt wrong with a bit of alas poor Yorick every now and again lol