Sex Appeal; What's The Secret?

My inspiration for this post is a lady that I spotted at the school gates earlier today and she got me thinking.
Her outfit was really quite sexy, not tarty or slutty, and was the reason that she caught my eye. However, her general manner and demeanour exuded no sex appeal whatsoever  (in my opinion) despite her eyecatching choice of clothes.
So my friends, why is it that some ladies can wear such sexy stuff yet exhibit no sex appeal?
Conversely, how can some ladies wear everyday stuff such as jeans and t-shirt, and simply ooooooze with sex appeal?
Presumably the same paradox applies to men too. Can any of our lovely ladies confirm this?
What's the secret???

If I could answer that one I would be very rich. But I know what you mean.

I agree with Voshi, RM. I don't think we're meant to know!

Sex appeal, desirability, sensuality, seductiveness, allure - call it what you want - is most definitely in the eye of the beholder.

It's one of life's mysteries. But I also agree that certain people ooze sophistication and sex appeal and can wear any clothes and accessories. One man's (or woman's) style is another's shroud.

Thanks for the answers ladies.
Maybe there are no answers and sex appeal is indeed one of life's great mysteries.
I suppose we all have different tastes and look for different sexy attributes in people.
A friend of mine often used to say "it wouldn't do for all men to have the same taste 'cos some poor woman would be getting shagged senseless!"
I could only agree with him my friends.

It's all to do with confidence. If you feel sexy in your head you will act sexy and look sexy regardless of what you are wearing

Who knows, we'd all be rich if we could figure it out. If anyone does let me know

It really is just confidence

Sex appeal has very little to do with looks. It's far more attitude. Feel sexy and you will look sexy

(03 Oct 2018 18:47)Diamond123 Wrote:  It really is just confidence

Sex appeal has very little to do with looks. It's far more attitude. Feel sexy and you will look sexy

you 100% correct
if you walk like you own the room, u own it.  
best place to practice at swimming pool lol,  if u walk out and back looking stupid in swim wear you gain alot of coniferdence
its where i learnt it 

Now all I can think of is you in a swimming pool